I'm Jerry McGuire!

This is one of my best pals, Payton. He has given me such validation and some of the greatest compliments OF MY LIFE. He is 9 and we have been friends for probably 3-4 years. I went to a school bowling party of his last week. One of the parents introduced themselves to me and pointed out their child and then asked who I was. I was sitting next to Payton's mom (coolest.friend.ever) and I looked at her not quite knowing exactly how to explain who I was. So of course I said too much, too fast, tried to be funny and it came out like we were modern family lesbians! Payton spoke up and said, and I quote, "Megan is my other mom that doesn't live with me." I am sure that the other parents left very confused now thinking that there was either some divorce or polygamy/sister wives involved...but I knew what was going on. Payton had just called me "mom" in a sense. I have never been called that. Ever. This sweet 9 year old views me as his back up mother. What the what? I was so moved by that. I think of that often and can hear him, in only his voice, saying that!

Another favorite Payton story happened a couple of years ago. I got a text from him that said "This is Payton. Will you be my agent? I need someone to tell my secrets to and get some advice from." I felt like Jerry McGuire! Heck yes, I'll be your agent! I was laughing hysterically to Scott and soon got a follow-up text from Payton's mom saying, um I'm having a talk with Payton about his said "secrets" and sorry to bug you. I reassured her that neither Payton nor she were ever bugging me!

Whenever I visit their house, Payton gives me hugs all the time, freely telling me that he loves me. It makes me feel so important and seriously loved. I love the honesty and openness of this kid! I think kids are such good judges of characters, so for one to call me "mom" and want me to be his "agent" are a couple of the greatest compliments I have ever received! Thanks Payt! I'll always have your back, buddy!